An Ask Reddit put up loaded up with traits and behaviors that ought to inform you to maintain your distance from somebody, should you can. There are lots of unsavory individuals on the market, however should you maintain your eyes open, you possibly can spot those to maintain your guard up round.

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“What’s an obvious sign that someone is not a good person?” u/Careful_Tip6823 requested.

Aside from quite a few pithy responses about who somebody voted for and feedback about purple hats, lots of the hundreds of feedback warn towards searching for how individuals deal with others and when their kindness vanishes. Anyone who thinks it’s okay to be merciless beneath sure circumstances will finally flip that upon you.

Though some considerate Redditors warned individuals to not scale back everyone to both “good” or “bad,” you possibly can nonetheless look out for your self. Beware snap judgments, however the next 18 behaviors are some fairly common purple flags:

1. They deal with you in another way whenever you’re alone

“When you are just 1-on-1 with this person, they will act like they are your best friend or something, but AS SOON as you get into a group setting, they will be real quick to crap on you for God knows why, like they are trying to climb some social ladder or smth.” —u/KarateKidd624

2. They mistreat their vital different

“A couple of colleagues and I were considering a business opportunity where we were going to partner with an investor. We had already been doing some business with his wife for years, and she was the reason we were all at the table anyway. So as we got close to committing to the deal, the husband investor says that he doesn’t see a fit for his wife in the new business, and they had agreed she would bow out.”

“We were shocked and asked for details, and he basically was sh*tting on his wife for not being effective at business development, which we were in total disagreement about.” —u/BaconReceptacle

3. They diss their buddies behind their backs

“I know someone like this. They are super nice and friendly with everyone, so you wouldn’t even suspect. The more they were around me, the more I realized how much they judge, criticize, mock, and gossip about others behind their backs, and not excluding the ones they call friends and even relatives.”

“It’s really bizarre how social and likeable they appear with others.” —u/Moonlightdancer7

4. They’re solely good to get one thing from you

“They weaponize kindness. Like they’ll do something ‘nice’ for you just so they can hold it over your head forever.” —u/Expert-Economy-3938

5. They’re solely respectable to individuals they like

“I know someone who brags about how they’re like this and wears it like a badge of honor. They’ve legit said ‘a person could be choking to death in front of me and I’d only help if I really liked the person. Otherwise, I’d just let them choke and die.’” —u/Enchantedbibliophile

6. They solely discuss themselves

“My brother is like this. You could have a whole conversation with him, and he will talk only about himself, and if you try to say something about you, it’s like he didn’t hear you; he just keeps talking.”

“Yesterday, her wife (who gave birth to their baby only a few months ago) called me, distressed, that he has been cheating on her for months, possibly years. Hmmm.” —u/dankusama

7. They all the time need to be proper

“They can’t ever admit that they are wrong, not even for a second. Everything becomes a debate where they just have to have the last word.” —u/stewartd434

8. They solely take and by no means give

“They keep asking people for things with no intention of giving back. Everyone needs help sometimes, but it’s the takers that need a good kick in the face.” —u/smokescreen34

9. They say everybody else is the issue

“‘I don’t know why people hate me.’ I will find excuses for my bad actions and wonder why others won’t tolerate it.”

“‘Everyone in my life turned their backs on me.’ After they had enough of the crap I put them through.” —u/PleaseDontMakeMeSob

10. They count on empathy to go a technique

“When they don’t even attempt to empathize with others’ hardships, but expect the whole world to stop when something happens to them.” —u/Distinct-Common-7471

11. They mistreat the susceptible

“How they treat children, animals, the disabled, and the elderly. Tell you everything you need to know.” —u/iamChiman8

12. They’re unmoved by struggling

“They lack empathy; if they can sit in the presence of pain and/or suffering (big or small, mental or physical) and not be affected, or worse they are annoyed (contextually incongruent of course) then understand that this is not just a bad person but a destructive one, to themselves and others.” —u/FoxfireBlu

13. They’re impolite to service employees

“Treating fast food, restaurant, and other service workers like sh*t. Stay so far the f*ck away from me.” —u/Comfortable_Basil_37

14. They suppose the world revolves round them

“I’ve found people who lack patience and don’t seem to listen to others are the worst. They’ve failed to see themselves as part of the universe but instead act as if they’re the center of it.” —u/mexicat2000

15. They hate boundaries

“They’re super nice as long as you’re doing things for them. But the moment you set a boundary or say no, their true colors show.” —u/DroohAndruh

“Leaving their shopping trolley in the middle of the car park. 100% of the time they’re a c***-.” —u/ganashers

17. They let you understand how good they’re

“Declaring how good of a person they are… Making any their good deeds known and publicized or documented. IE for show.” —u/moon_witch_26

18. They refuse to attend their flip

“Queue/line jumping. Someone who doesn’t feel like they should have to wait their turn will always prioritize themself over others in many other ways too.” —u/Unacceptable_tragedy

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