“Bro is preventing for his life within the feedback.”

A sushi date turned viral drama after a person despatched his date a controversial TikTok and she or he aired it out on-line.

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The short-lived romance between TikTokers Alexa Abney (@alexaabney69) and Cole O’Brien (@coleobrien) began on a relationship app and resulted in conflicting TikToks with thousands and thousands of views. Though they solely met as soon as, each are actually defending their model of what occurred.

Either side of the story

In keeping with O’Brien, their sushi date went nicely. He described deep dialog and robust chemistry. Abney disagreed.

“He was simply giving hater primary,” she mentioned in her TikTok recap of the date, which has been considered over 4.8 million occasions.

Issues escalated when O’Brien despatched her a video that many viewers known as blatantly misogynistic. In it, a person rants “about how all ladies are loopy, we act via our feelings, and we simply can’t suppose logically as a result of we’re such emotional beings. And once you signal as much as be a boyfriend, that’s what you join. You’re not signing as much as be a therapist or take heed to your girlfriend’s cries for assist.”

Abney was surprised. “I can’t consider he despatched that to me. That’s actually bizarre, proper?” she requested viewers, who rapidly took her facet.

@alexaabney69 i’m simply confused why he despatched that to me lol #fyp #baddate #storytime ♬ unique sound – alexa 🫶🏼💌🐬

O’Brien later admitted he despatched the video, however claimed he didn’t imply to. He claimed that he falls asleep watching TikToks pretty typically, and it isn’t out of the odd for him to ship movies in his sleep.

He tried to achieve out to Abney, however she had already blocked him on all social media. O’Brien had her quantity, nonetheless, and adopted up with a textual content apology the following afternoon, claiming the despatched video was unintentional. He says she left that half out of her put up, which annoyed him much more.

@coleobrien @alexaabney69 Right here’s the total story because you wished to color me out to be a horrible individual. #storytime #baddate #relationship #datingapps #datinglife #fy #fyp #foryou #trending #viral ♬ unique sound – coleobrien

TikTok reacts to the relationship drama

Importantly, the controversy didn’t cease with their very own posts. Viewers flooded either side with feedback. Some backed Abney, with one writing, “even when he says he ‘by accident’ despatched it to her, that also means his algorithm is filled with that misogyny stuff basically ….” Others supported O’Brien and known as Abney’s put up an overreaction.

In one other perspective, somebody mentioned they only weren’t meant to be and it was so simple as that. “I watched his pov and I believe each of you dodged a bullet, clearly neither of you has the identical mindset/important considering so it simply wouldn’t have labored out.”

Due to the backlash, O’Brien has now sworn off relationship. In the meantime, Abney hasn’t posted a follow-up, however her unique video continues to attract consideration.

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